feat(public-ip): unify public-IP detection into one privacy-first script

The public IP was previously detected independently in three places,
each contacting a different third party: the Hub (HTTPS echo via
api.ipify.org / ifconfig.me / icanhazip.com on every API call and
background tick), DDNS (myip.opendns.com via OpenDNS), and LiveKit
(embedded STUN). Consolidate into a single detector with one shared
cache so every consumer reads the same value with minimal exposure.

- add modules/core/public-ip.nix: installs /var/lib/sovran/public-ip.py
  (pure Python stdlib, no new deps) writing /var/lib/secrets/external-ip
- detection chain (first success wins): explicit pin, fresh cache
  (default TTL 300s), STUN binding request over UDP (one packet, no
  metadata), DNS myip.opendns.com query, then OPT-IN HTTPS echo
  (publicIP.httpsEcho, empty by default — never contacted unless listed)
- privacy: while the cache is fresh zero third parties are contacted;
  at most one party learns the IP per refresh interval, via the least
  exposing mechanism available
- hub (server.py): _get_external_ip() now reads the shared detector /
  cache instead of calling ipify/ifconfig/icanhazip directly
- ddns (njalla.nix): use the shared detector instead of a separate
  OpenDNS dig; allow the hardened service to write /var/lib/secrets
- element-calling: livekit-turn-setup falls back to the shared
  detector on cold boot; add LiveKit webhooks to lk-jwt-service
  (sfu_webhook) so abrupt disconnects are cleaned up immediately;
  set LIVEKIT_SANITY_CHECK_INTERVAL_SECONDS=60 as a missed-webhook
  guard; drop the dead services.livekit.settings block and set
  openFirewall=false (Caddy fronts the SFU; no public 7880/tcp)
- new options: sovran_systemsOS.publicIP.{stunServer,stunPort,
  dnsResolver,httpsEcho,cacheTTL}

modules/modules.nix

@@ -17,6 +17,7 @@
     ./core/no-sleep.nix
     ./core/cpu-performance.nix
     ./core/local-domain-loopback.nix
+    ./core/public-ip.nix
 
     # ── Always on (no flag) ───────────────────────────────────
     ./php.nix