feat: migrate Matrix federation from port 8448 to .well-known/matrix/server on 443

- modules/core/caddy.nix: replace $MATRIX:8448 site with .well-known/matrix/server handler inside $MATRIX vhost
- modules/element-calling.nix: add .well-known/matrix/server respond directive, remove $MATRIX:8448 block
- modules/synapse.nix: remove 8448 TCP/UDP firewall openings
- app/sovran_systemsos_web/server.py: remove _PORTS_MATRIX_FEDERATION constant, set matrix-synapse.service to [], simplify api_service_detail to only check LiveKit extra ports
- app/sovran_systemsos_web/static/onboarding.js: remove 8448 row from Step 4, update totals to 3/8 (3 required + 5 optional)

modules/element-calling.nix

@@ -68,10 +68,7 @@ $MATRIX {
   header /.well-known/matrix/* Access-Control-Allow-Methods "GET, POST, PUT, DELETE, OPTIONS"
   header /.well-known/matrix/* Access-Control-Allow-Headers "X-Requested-With, Content-Type, Authorization"
   respond /.well-known/matrix/client \`{ "m.homeserver": {"base_url": "https://$MATRIX" }, "org.matrix.msc4143.rtc_foci": [{ "type":"livekit", "livekit_service_url":"https://$ELEMENT_CALLING/livekit/jwt" }] }\`
-}
-
-$MATRIX:8448 {
-  reverse_proxy http://localhost:8008
+  respond /.well-known/matrix/server \`{"m.server":"$MATRIX:443"}\`
 }
 
 $ELEMENT_CALLING {